All of us can think of someone different to us.
All of us can think of someone similar to us.
So the choice each day is to consider whether we will focus on difference or similarities.
If we hope to build healthy coherent communities to live in, we have to pay attention to our differences, while also focusing on what unites our common humanity.
We can find a way to get along, if we choose.
Unless we are stuck in lifeless dogma.